I did.. "
I would just like a little peace and quiet girls ! " and I thought,,
How stupid. !!!! How boring !
Strange how life turns upside down and inside out as you get older. This is all I have yearned for this past year. My mantra... A little more ,,, you guessed it. "Peace and Quiet "
So as this crazy busy year comes to an end, with the holidays quickly approaching,, and me trying like heck to get to the bottom of "what" the holidays truly mean to me,,, I kept coming back to my mantra,, peace and quiet..
The past two years have been a roller coaster ride of emotions for me,,, And despite it all,,,, I kept coming back and yearning for,,, a little "Peace and Quiet " This mantra kept me coming back to whats obviously so important to me,,,
The holidays are so hurried and stressful... shopping shopping and more shopping. That seems to be all people are wrapped up in these days.. The "obligatory" gift giving,,, From the day before Thanksgiving til now,, I have avoided the TV at all costs because the sound of another "GREAT HOLIDLAY BLOW OUT SALE,,, was enough to make me want to "blow my brains out !
To me,, the meaning of holidays have been lost. To commercialism and material desires... I found myself looking inward to what really matters. ,, Ask yourselves,, What "REALLY "matters to you. I have found the same words resonating in my brain
"Peace and Quiet" "Family and Friends"
So this year, my husband and I took a different approach.. no extravegent gifts were bought.. We gave the gift of time.. Time to those that matter most. We enjoyed some wonderful lovely dinners with some of those that are closest and dearest to us. From Thanksgiving til now. Tomorrow we head out on a road trip to Tulsa to visit my brother and his wonderful family. This is a trip we have been longing for all year... To spend some much needed time with family so dear to us. So as the weeks have wound down,, especially this last one,, I have tried to remind myself to take pleasure in the little moments that bring joy and,,,,,, yep,, you guessed it..
"Peace and Quiet"
My advice,, Forget the stress... Lets face it,,, there is a LOT more peaceful moments in our lives ,,, rather than stressful ones. Its all a matter of how you look at things,, The more time you spend obsessing on the stressful moments,, the more time the peaceful moments get "lost in the shuffle" trust me,, I know this a lot easier said than done,
So this past week imparticular as the year comes to a close,, I have captured a few moments of what has brought me "peace, quiet and joy,,, " and here they are,,, In no particular order,,,
MY CHILDREN,,, need I say more...
Thw twinkling of the Christmas lights late at night makes me feel fortunate to have a home to lay my head and a home to decorate to my wildest expectations...
Take time to indulge in what TRULY matters to you and what TRULY brings you joy and I guarantee,,,, you wont be any happier than the moment you DECIDE to be happy.



